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Live with Your Eyes Wide Open
The aspects of things that are most important to us are hidden because of their simplicity and familiarity.
-Ludwig Wittgenstein
On June 19th, I wrote a daily tip called “Be Perceptive.” That “daily tip” happens to be much more than just a hint; it is a reaction to what I’ve noticed recently relative to how I view life. In short, I have begun to apply my research-oriented analytical eye to my daily life. While this can be somewhat annoying, it is opening my eyes to the details—the little things—that I never noticed or took time to consider. I want to share this experience here and would love to read your personal reactions to the exercise. It will be interesting to see how something so simple can be assessed from so many different perspectives.
Be Perceptive
Stephen Covey ends his foreword for The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People with a powerful personal note to readers. Covey writes:
I have personally found living the 7 Habits a constant struggle – primarily because the better you get, the very nature of the challenge changes, just like skiing, playing golf, tennis, or any sport does. Because I sincerely work and struggle every day at living these principle-embodied habits, I warmly join you in this adventure.
The blurb on the cover of Covey’s book contains a similarly powerful message. Of note is that there is only one blurb on the book’s cover. Covey’s work contains six pages of the most beautifully crafted praises—the kinds of reviews most authors only dream of receiving. Read below the blurb chosen for the cover.
“A wonderful book that could change your life.” That one was written by Tom Peters, bestselling author of In Search of Excellence.
Now, focus on the quote above by Tom Peters. Why is it powerful? Why is it different than most cover blurbs that adorn self-improvement books? The answer can be seen in just one word. This one word, coupled with the note at the end of the foreword, highlight the most important element associated with personal change. Personal change can never be guaranteed by anyone or anything; only you hold that guarantee.
Reflect
We typically move at an incredibly fast pace, one that limits what we can actually digest. We lose a great deal of what the “little things” have to offer us. In essence, we are skimming life the same way we skim words in a book. Because of this, we lose a great deal of the meaning.
Take Home Message
Be perceptive before you encounter that climatic cliffhanger. Start noticing more than just what appears on the surface of life.
It’s Your Turn
It is now your chance to set your own example. Here, the message is simply too important for you to skim. Prove to yourself that you will change your life. It’s certainly a struggle to accomplish this, but that struggle—to live with your eyes wide open—is worth everything.
You decide: what is the one word answer?
You could change your life.
Remember, you are the only person who can guarantee that change. You must become your own best example.
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6 Responses to “Live with Your Eyes Wide Open”
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This is a great post. At first I didn’t notice “could” but when I read the entire post again it stuck out as if it was in neon.
Twitter: clrsimple2
says:
So happy you liked it, Cindy!! Thank you for commenting :).
Sounds like you are enjoying 7 Habits so far! Can’t wait to hear what you think of habit one, I keep rereading it like it’s on a loop.
:)
One of the statements I carry with me each day is that we bring our own weather with us, and that a proactive person strives for excellence no matter what the weather outside is at the time. It’s especially applicable when I run in the morning!
Twitter: clrsimple2
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I’m such a bad student! I haven’t even read habit one yet — have to pick up the book again! I love the statement about the weather – definitely going to start reading it again :).
Twitter: leanamay
says:
Fantastic post Carolyn! Very thought provoking. I have started 7 Habits a few times and then don’t get back to it. You have re inspired me to pick it up again!
Twitter: clrsimple2
says:
Same with me, Leana! I’m going to pick it up again too :)! I got so distracted by the cover and intro that I didn’t even make it to habit one – let me know if you pick it up soon :).