Posts Tagged ‘Joy’

A Joyful Life

December 28th, 2011 | 1 Comment »

Note for new readers: Throughout December, I will be posting my personal responses to Reverb11. My posts will be a bit different than usual—more vulnerable, less polished, more frequent, and probably more interesting! However, you can expect some “special” posts  during the month as well. If you’re interested in reading more typical content, check out a few of the most popular posts. Regardless of what you’re reading (or not reading), welcome and happy December!

19. Joy. What does a joyful life look like for you?

A Joyful Life

… is composed of joyful moments.

… is being mindful of joyful moments.

… is now, not tomorrow—it’s a state of being not based on circumstances.

… is grabbing the moment, and not letting it go.

… is feeling giddy about what you’re doing or who you’re with.

… is working smarter, not harder.

… is accepting what is and letting go of what is not.

… is filled with imperfections and mistakes.

… is jagged and rarely smooth, made of turns and leaps—dreams realized and dreams abandoned.

… is undefinable, constantly evolving.

… is available to all who embrace it, all who feel worthy of embracing it. moments of joy enable you to get through life’s darkest moments, especially when you feel joy is the last emotion you should be feeling. it’s during the difficult moments that you need to dig deep and embrace little kernels of joy.

moments of joy. flashes of delight. that is what we live for, that is a joyful life.

What, in this moment, brings you joy?

image: ritzy bee

How to Find Joy at Work

April 5th, 2010 | 8 Comments »

“When people go to work, they shouldn’t have to leave their hearts at home.” -Betty Bender

When discussing topics such as “joy,” it’s easy to neglect actually applying the wisdom that we find to our day-to-day lives. But if you ask yourself if you want more joy, the answer is almost always “YES!” Who doesn’t want more joy? BUT (and there’s always a but), we don’t like to focus on those areas of our lives that are not joyful. They scare us. We often become conditioned to believe that if something isn’t hard (especially in an area like work), then it’s not worth doing, that we’re not giving our all – i.e., the all-or-nothing mentality. Personally, I fell into this trap and realized I couldn’t sustain what I was doing without a sense of joy in my life, and so I set out determined to incorporate joy into my work.

Along this journey, I’ve learned over and over again that finding joy in what you do is integral to your wellbeing. Utilizing the tips listed below while reminding yourself of the bigger picture can help steer you to a place of contentment. Never forget – you don’t deserve any less.

Acknowledge reality. How do you feel in your work environment? Don’t think about this question – use your body as a compass and literally acknowledge how your body feels while working. Then, compare this feeling to how your body feels when you’re doing something you absolutely love. Is there room for improvement? If so, you’ve completed one of the hardest steps – consciously recognizing that you want to change an area of your life. Now, you’re ready to focus on creating that change.

Do you need more joy at work?

Remain positive. Remember that your own attitude is the one that counts.  No matter the environment you find yourself in, if you stay positive, you’ll find your own daily outlook and interactions improve. Focus on brainstorming small ways to improve your routine.

What can you do to nurture a positive attitude at work?

Celebrate moments of accomplishment. Placing moments of success on your own small pedestal may help you grasp the bigger picture.  Every mountain is climbed with small steps of success.  Don’t forget that every task you complete contributes to your end goal. What is that end goal?  If you view the end goal as something of little importance to you – or no relation to you (e.g., merely a step to help your boss achieve his/her goal) – then it’s difficult to take pride in your work. Reframe the way you view your smaller tasks so that they are more important to you. Never underestimate the impact you’re making.

What is your end goal? What is your motivation for moving towards that goal?

Be proactive. Brainstorm new ways to approach a problem or process at work, look to improve current job tasks, and work to add to your repertoire of skills. These actions will provide you with a sense of control over your own work and increase the impact you feel you have.  You’re shifting the power dynamic, and that is incredibly empowering.

How can you be proactive? Why do you want to be proactive?

Start something with passion. If you feel something missing from your life, consider turning in that direction with passion and creativity.  Take the lead on a new initiative or project at work, focus on a project outside of work, or further your involvement in the community – these activities will help foster other interests and will allow you to focus on what brings you joy. Utilize this passion when you approach your work – regardless of the task – to infuse positive energy into your day.

How can you add passion to what you do?

Consider fulfillment and purpose. It’s important to analyze your personal goals and overall vision. Every couple of years, take the time to do this and compare your current work life with where you see yourself going. Doing this can help you get in touch with your current state of fulfillment and where you’d like to grow.  Aligning these goals with your work life will create a powerful ripple effect that is cumulative over the long term.

What are your personal goals? What are your professional goals? Do these goals align?

There is no doubt that our current economic climate contributes to stress in the workplace.  With the strain stemming from both job insecurity and the increasing burden on employees to take on ever-greater responsibilities, it is important to look beyond the everyday.  No matter where your current work life stands, the process of continual improvement will never lead you wrong.  Finding joy in your professional life and striving toward a sense of balance between your professional and personal life are crucial components of your happiness.  Creating a more joyful work environment by focusing on those changes that you can control and staying positive are very important ways to make those workdays go by with a smile.

What do you think? What’s your relationship with joy at work?

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*I’ve emphasized (via italics) specific questions within the text that focus on the big picture. Feel free to utilize these questions as journaling prompts or even as prompts for your own blog posts. I hope you find them useful for turning the knowledge in this post into action. If you do discuss these questions within a blog post, please let me know!

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50 Ways to Add Joy to Your Day

November 20th, 2009 | 30 Comments »

A Joyful Moment

It’s pretty gloomy in New England this time of year. It feels like darkness has completely overpowered natural sunshine. While I could dwell on the negative aspects of winter, I am shifting my mindset this season. Everyday, I have committed to doing at least one thing that brings me joy. In order for this to actually work, I created a little list to reference when it’s time for my daily dose of joy. It’s simple, fun, and has a tremendous influence on my general wellbeing.

This little list of 50 items includes some of my personal “joy” favorites. EnJOY!

1. Smile.

2. Write a thank-you note to yourself (on your best stationery, of course).

3. Venture outside for a five-minute walk.

4. Indulge in a delicious piece of chocolate (or hot chocolate with lots of marshmallows!).

5. Find a piece of jewelry you haven’t worn in awhile – feels just like vintage shopping!

6. Pick fresh flowers or send yourself a little bouquet of favorite flowers.

7.  Laugh – Visit a funny blog, watch a movie, or spend time with someone who makes you laugh.

8. Find serenity at a favorite local spot (ex. a park, a lake, a coffee shop, a little nook in your house or office).

9. Take one action towards a goal or dream.

10. Hit the pause button and spend five-minutes alone – allow your mind to become quiet.

11. Bake a favorite treat with a family member or friend — or bake alone and surprise someone special with yummy treats.

12. Discover an uplifting and fun song – something new.

13. Slow down and enjoy a long brunch.

14. Try a new fitness class.

15. Indulge in watching tv or reading a magazine – guilt free!

16. Declare a vacation day – write it BIG on your calendar so you get to anticipate this upcoming personal time (a vacation day can fall on the weekend).

17. Do a good deed — help someone else find joy.

18. Treat yourself to a favorite cup of coffee or tea – enjoy the flavors and activate your senses.

19. Be goofy! Dance around your room to your favorite music.

20. Explore the inspirational and joyful blog, Kind Over Matter.

21. Draw for fun.

22. Get rid of two items in your physical environment that make you feel negative.

23. Bite into a piece of fresh fruit.

24. Wear a color that makes you feel confident and joyful!

25. Write down three things that you are grateful for.

26. Call a supportive friend – or reconnect with someone you haven’t spoken to in awhile.

27. Watch the sunset from a beautiful location.

28. Discover something new.

29. Start a book that you’ve been meaning to read.

30. Begin a fun DIY project.

31. Frame a photo of a favorite memory.

32. Take five deep breaths and stretch.

33. Browse books at your local book store (may I suggest one book in particular, Perseverance).

34. Interview yourself (sounds foolish, but can be oh so fun!).

35. Try a new recipe.

36. Learn something new (ex. a new hobby or craft).

37. Redesign (use what you already own to redesign your space) an area of your office or home.

38. Write a thoughtful comment on a personal blog you read (comments mean the world to me – hint hint!).

39. Create a list of 10 things you love about your significant other – surprise him/her with the list.

40. Look on the bright side.

41. Take a short, relaxing nap. Wake up rejuvenated.

42. Ask for support from those you trust with a problem – solving a problem definitely adds joy to the day.

43. Disconnect for lunch – close your door, turn off the computer and blackberry, and simply enjoy a peaceful lunch break.

44. Search for a hidden treasure on Ebay or Etsy.

45. Write a hope note and leave it for someone to find.

46. Connect with your fellow tweeters. Send a tweet with a joyful message.

47. Donate one item (or your time) to a local charity.

48. Create a collage (or browse the outstanding galleries) on Polyvore.

49. Create a list of 10 things that make you happy – your own personal “joy” list.

50. Make a commitment to do at least one thing per day that adds joy to your life.