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Living Your Vision: Carrie McCarthy

August 13th, 2010 | 24 Comments »

Purpose of “Living Your Vision” Series: To focus on the journey – the how – of unconventional success. The series emphasizes that life is truly a verb – not solely a string of accomplishments.

Unconventional success redefines what we consider possible – it’s success that has not yet been defined by others. Essentially, it means paving a path through uncharted territory.

Carrie McCarthy is the founder and co-author of Style Statement: Live by Your Own Design, she has been featured in Real Simple, Vogue, Body & Soul, and Domino. Style Statement is an intimate process of self-revelation and empowerment, An hour-long consultation that provides a blueprint of sorts for a woman’s personal, emotional and life styles-all designed to help her live authentically.”

As an interior designer, Carrie founded her company on the principle that true style creates both beauty and ease in people’s lives. She has designed for multi-million dollar estates and small studios, and styled for lifestyle magazines, luxury hotels and architectural firms. As a graduate of the London College of Fashion, Carrie established “Robe,” a successful wedding dress company, which was a dramatic contrast from her early career as a nationally ranked track and field athlete.

How are you living your vision?

My vision is a work in progress, one day it feels graceful and full of ease, another day it feels difficult and wobbly. And I’m okay with my paradoxical feelings. I’ve given up thinking, “I need to get it right,” instead I ask three questions:

Does this bring me joy?

What am I committed to?

Who may I ask for support?

Asking myself these questions guides me towards my vision especially on those days of insecurity, overwhelm and abundance of choice.

What is your Style Statement? Please share what that statement means to you.

My Style Statement is Refined Treasure. I’ve always been refining my business, my choices, and my lifestyle. On the deepest level, my Style Statement reminds me that it’s always valuable to refine my plan, and treasures always show up. And when I have been less than my best – I’ve been the opposite of my Style Statement, ignoring my intuition, rushing under pressure or neglecting my needs.

When I treasure myself, I find the treasures in others.

When working on an exciting project (one that you are passionate about), how do you quiet your thoughts and shift your mind-set in order to do “other” things?

Some people can work through a bomb going off, not me. A beautiful environment is essential to my creativity, I sit at my French monastery table with a view of the forest, a cup of earl grey tea, a pencil, a pad of grid paper, my mac book and my mind is clear and alert.

What are three to five lessons you’ve learned during your personal journey?

  • I am responsible for my life.
  • Nature heals.
  • Beauty inspires.
  • I am perfectly flawed.
  • Big egos are big problems.

How do you acknowledge & celebrate personal success?

I’m not great at this, it’s one of the reasons my second word is Treasure. As a student and athlete I learned to go without until it became a habit, then I met my husband and he has taught me to fill our lives with goodness and celebration. Hands down the birth of our son has been the greatest gift and in celebration of his birth we planted an olive tree on our property.

Complete the prompts in bold…

  • I know… knowing yourself is beautiful.
  • This week, I want to… swim 2km.
  • This month, I want to… complete our cottage on the Gulf Islands and spend the rest of the summer there.
  • In this lifetime, I want to… foster what I love and make a difference.
  • I don’t know… so much.
  • I am… complicated and brave.

What’s an inspiring tip you’d like to share with readers?

Underneath each complaint is a wish, what are you wishing for?

What’s a question you wish more people asked?

What are you curious about?

. . . . . GIVEAWAY! . . . . .

Thank you so much, Carrie, for sharing your incredible responses! I am so inspired by how you are living your vision :).

Carrie is giving away a signed copy of Style Statement: Live By Your Own Design to one lucky winner. To enter to win, please answer the following question by 5 PM EST Friday, August 20th.

What do you find yourself consistently longing for?

:: UPDATE (8-23-2010) ::

Congratulations, Jenn, you are the giveaway recipient! Thank you so much to everyone for your thoughtful comments!

Living Your Vision: Leana May

April 23rd, 2010 | 7 Comments »

Purpose of “Living Your Vision” Series: To focus on the journey – the how – of unconventional success. The series emphasizes that life is truly a verb – not solely a string of accomplishments.

Unconventional success redefines what we consider possible – it’s success that has not yet been defined by others. Essentially, it means paving a path through uncharted territory.

Leana May is in the midst of her training to become a pediatric oncologist.

While in medical school fulfilling her lifelong dream of becoming a physician, Leana realized that she was meant to do more than treat individual patients. Influenced by her extensive medical work abroad, as well as her love for under served populations, Leana made the unconventional decision to pursue a Masters in Public Health before beginning residency. Her global research in cancer in under served populations led to another two year hiatus from clinical medicine. The path Leana envisioned for herself has taken many twists and turns, but along the way she has found deeper levels of personal fulfillment and inspiration than she could have ever imagined possible.

Leana is proud to serve on the Lance Armstrong Foundation’s Young Leaders Cancer Council and is involved with a number of other national cancer organizations. This past fall she was selected as a delegate from the United States to the Lance Armstrong Foundation’s Global Cancer Summit in Dublin, Ireland, for her research on pediatric brain tumors in Morocco. In addition, she enjoys blogging about experiences and things that inspire her at Be The Change.

How are you living your vision?

I have always believed in working hard, but playing equally as hard. I try to balance the rigors of my work with making time for things that bring me personal joy and nourish my soul. I enjoy practicing yoga, participating in biking events and triathlons, snowshoeing, skiing, reading blogs and traveling the world.

What are three to five lessons you’ve learned during your personal journey?

  • You are often your harshest critic.
  • Follow your heart, trust your gut.
  • Tomorrow is a new day, a fresh start no matter what happened today.
  • Living each day as if it were your last will allow a life without regrets.
  • Love and believe in yourself as much as you believe in your friends & family.

How do you acknowledge & celebrate personal success?

This is something I struggle with. I always have the next project or goal in mind. Optimally I would celebrate with my family and friends as they are the source of so much of my strength. If they aren’t around, I try to do something small to pause in acknowledgment of my persistence, sweat and tears. It might be a cupcake or popping open a bottle of my favorite sparkling wine, Sophia.

What are your unfiltered thoughts about failure?

I despise the word failure. My energy and thoughts may need to change directions, but there is always a lesson to learn, therefore no act is a failure. I like to think of my difficulties as struggles or roadblocks. I try to analyze and understand the process when I don’t obtain a desired result: What didn’t work? What am I truly trying to accomplish? Are their other ways to reach the same end point?

The biggest lesson I have learned is that no matter how dire the circumstances seem in the moment, time heals. Personally, my struggles and proverbial road blocks have led to some of the most remarkable experiences and relationships in my life. I often find comfort in this Tony Snow quote, “The challenges that make our hearts leap and stomachs churn invariably strengthen our faith and grant measures of wisdom and joy that we would not experience otherwise.”

Complete the prompts in bold…

  • I know… that dreams are always worth chasing.
  • This week, I want to… say yes to something new or out of my usual routine.
  • This month, I want to… trust in the universe for the “right” outcome to an upcoming big decision in my life.
  • In this lifetime, I want to… find a way to leave a lasting impact on the world.
  • I don’t know… what the future holds, but I have faith that my passion and persistence will serve me well.
  • I am… grateful for this moment.

What’s an inspiring tip you’d like to share with readers?

We are each the hero of our story.

What’s a question you wish more people asked?

Where can you bring hope, courage or joy into the life of someone you know?

Living Your Vision: Christine Mason Miller

December 9th, 2009 | 15 Comments »

Over the past few months, Unconventional Success has been a hot topic on A Beautiful Ripple Effect. Each post prompted unique reactions and a desire to know more. After much brainstorming, I realized that in order to “know more,” we needed to look at the journey from different perspectives. Last month, I announced this realization and the beginning of a new interview series. I could not have imagined a better person to launch this series — since it was this individual who prompted the launch of A Beautiful Ripple Effect.

Purpose of “Living Your Vision” Series: To focus on the journey – the how – of unconventional success. The series emphasizes that life is truly a verb – not solely a string of accomplishments.

Unconventional success redefines what we consider possible – it’s success that has not yet been defined by others. Essentially, it means paving a path through uncharted territory.

Christine Mason Miller Photograph

Christine Mason Miller is a Santa Monica based writer and artist who has been drawing, painting, creating, writing and exploring ever since she was a little girl. She began her journey as a professional artist in 1995 with the creation of Swirly, which began as a line of handmade greeting cards and evolved into an internationally recognized brand with licensees, clients and retail partners that included Target, Recycled Paper Greetings, Andrews McMeel Universal, Borders, Barnes & Noble, and Girl Scouts of America.

Christine has maintained a strong audience over the years with gallery exhibits of her mixed media work, her website and blog. In 2008 she released Ordinary Sparkling Moments: Reflections on Success and Contentment, a full color self-published book that combines her mixed media work and writing, all aimed at exploring the joys of finding wisdom in everyday life.  Her writing has been featured in Skirt! Magazine, The Wish Studio Blog, and This Ordinary Day, and she is is a member of the Squam Art Workshops teaching roster.  She was the keynote speaker at Virginia Tech’s Women in Leadership and Philanthropy Conference in June 2009 and her newly released line of inspirational wall art – licensed to Demdaco, Inc. – is off to a strong start, with new designs for a 2010 release already underway.

Christine’s art and writing gives viewers a peek into a variety of details from her life, including travels around the globe and memories shared with her grandma. Using materials as varied as acrylic paints, ink, coffee, mannequins, vintage photographs and other ephemera, Christine’s creations are full of color, texture and hidden stories.

Live Your Vision with Christine Mason Miller
  • How are you living your vision?
    • It is in the smaller details – being able to live in Los Angeles without a car, having writing deadlines on my calendar, creating a family with my husband.
  • When working on an exciting project (one that you are passionate about), how do you quiet your thoughts and shift your mind-set in order to do “other” things?
    • It is sometimes challenging; if I lived alone I would likely be a workaholic.  But with a home, a husband and a busy social life, there are always plenty of other things that need to get done (and that I enjoy doing), so those other facets of my life help keep me balanced.
  • What are three to five lessons you have learned during your personal journey?
    • Trust my gut.
    • Be true to my word.
    • Do my best.
    • Remember what really matters.
    • Stay in the present.
  • How do you acknowledge and celebrate personal success?
    • With my husband, family and friends – very often with champagne!
  • What is an “ordinary sparkling moment?”
    • I actually had a few moments this morning when I saw clearly that is what I was experiencing.  My husband and I had just come downstairs – me in my yoga pants, he in his suit for work.  He was at our kitchen table reading the paper while I was making coffee and emptying the dishwasher.  We weren’t talking much, just doing what we do every single morning.  I loved recognizing that this was our routine, this was how we were able to begin our day everyday:  Together, with coffee, breakfast, our newspapers and the sun streaming through our windows.
  • What are your unfiltered thoughts on “failure?”
    • I’ve had plenty of failures, and my perspective of them has evolved into something like this:  First of all, when I think of a new idea, project or venture, the first place my mind goes is to what it would look like if that idea succeeded.  Even though I’ve failed plenty, I go immediately towards success as a possible outcome, because I have also learned that sometimes it is wise to be careful about what I wish for.  We attach these labels to success and failure – one is good and the other is bad – but in fact both have positive and negative elements, and both have the potential to help us grow, evolve and create a more meaningful, authentic life.
    • When I think about failure, I try not to attach a label to it.  If I try something and it doesn’t work, that is not a reflection on my character, integrity or talent.  It is simply one step along my journey, and my job in those situations is to glean whatever lessons they have to offer and take them with me on my next endeavor.
  • Complete the prompts in bold.
    • I know that I am loved.
    • I want to …
      • This week: Begin a new painting (something I have been resisting for weeks.)
      • This month: Stay centered as the holiday season goes into full swing.
      • In this lifetime: Love as deeply and openly as possible, no matter what.
    • I don’t know how much longer I have on this earth, so I’m going to savor every minute of it.
    • I am an artist.
  • What is something you haven’t been asked in an interview that you wish you were asked?
    • No one has asked me how much money I make as an artist, and while this is not a question I wish I was asked, I mention this to make a point – that our society places a tremendous value on incomes, salaries and financial ambition, and I think it is easy to go down a road where we equate our success with our balance sheets.  I have no problem with financial ambition and success at all, but I also try to remind myself that at the end of the day, that isn’t what is going to truly touch people, inspire them and encourage them to take a leap of their own.  No one cares how much money I’ve made, and while I am proud of the financial goals I’ve reached, what I’ve learned is that there is so much more to success, to being inspiring and to creating a meaningful creative career.
  • What is an inspirational tip you would like to share with readers?
    • Your creative idea, dream, longing?  Do it!  Your 85-year old self will be so happy you went for it.

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Thank you so much, Christine, for opening up your heart and sharing your personal thoughts on A Beautiful Ripple Effect!

The first “Living Your Vision” interview wouldn’t be complete without an incredible giveaway! One lucky reader will receive a limited edition signed hardcover of Ordinary Sparkling Moments. Enter the giveaway by responding to Christine’s question below in the comments section!

Respond by Tuesday December 15th at 11:59 pm EST. Recipient will be chosen via random.org and announced on Wednesday December 16th.

What does your 85-year old self want you to do? Try? Experience? See?

– Updated 12.16.09 –

Congratulations to Rachel — the recipient of the Limited Edition Signed Hardcover of Ordinary Sparkling Moments!!