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Get More Done #2: How to Set Powerful Goals and Take Meaningful Action

August 10th, 2010 | 6 Comments »

If you haven’t read part one in this series, Get More Done #1: How to Confront and Weaken Analysis Paralysis, you might want to head there first.

Why are you doing what you are doing? Without a goal to connect to your actions, it is difficult to maintain momentum and motivation. When the actions of a task are tedious and not intrinsically exciting, it can feel as if there is no larger purpose to them. But there is always a goal, and without acknowledging it, you are walking down a dark and windy path with no map in hand.

Reconnect with Your Overarching Goal

Get Excited. Reframe your work in a way that excites you. What will spark your energy? Use your imagination to create a compelling reason to attract you to your work. Try thinking about how you could persuade someone else to do what you do, and be as genuine as possible. Find the silver lining and magnify it. In his groundbreaking book, The Now Habit, Neil Fiore writes, “The type of work and commitment that is more compatible with the Now Habit is a commitment to a mission that focuses your energies and brings about inner harmony, a commitment that comes from a pull toward a goal and an excitement about the process of getting there.”

Create a Goal Statement. There are many ways to create a goal statement that you can use to remind yourself of your greater purpose. For the purpose of overcoming analysis paralysis, I try to create a statement that is specific to the task at hand and has a deadline within four weeks. Let’s start with an example that I recently utilized (Thank you to Aby Garvey for teaching me this wonderful goal-setting technique!).

“Today is September 1, 2010. I am confident and calm now that my research proposal is complete.”

  • Include a specific date in your goal statement. Mark this date in your calendar.
  • What will you complete by your set date? Don’t set yourself up to fail. Keep your expectations realistic.
  • How will you feel when you complete this goal?
  • Create your goal statement using the steps outlined above and display it where you can see it throughout the day in order to maintain focus on why you are doing what you are doing! It can be helpful to create sub-goal statements as well if your project is especially long and arduous. To create a sub-goal statement, you follow the same formula as outlined above, but use specific milestones toward the main goal. For example, “Today is August 12, 2010. I am confident and calm now that my research proposal’s appendix materials are complete.”

Restart Your Engine with Intention and Ease

Now that you have faced your analysis paralysis head on, you have tremendously weakened its resolve. Spend a few minutes refocusing on the task at hand. Do you have everything you need to complete your work? Collate all of your materials near your command center. Then, determine what actions you want to take today. Rather than focus on completion, concentrate on starting to maintain momentum.

Create a Mind-Map. If you are still feeling resistance, utilize a mind-map to break down the actions into micro-actions (each action should take less than 5 minutes). In the middle of the mind-map, you want to write your main goal to keep it front and center. For reference, you can see my simple example below.

Focus on Action. You are ready to take action! Often, preparing to take action can become quite draining so you need to rev yourself up again to actually make progress. To help give you that much-needed push, try the following focusing exercise from The Now Habit. The exercise below is a shorter version than the one outlined within the book (the full exercise begins on page 150 of the paperback copy of the book).

“Focusing is a two-minute procedure for shifting rapidly to the flow state by replacing guilt and stress with stress-free focus on the present.”

With each breath I am tapping into my creative self, opening more and more of my brain power to approach my task. My conscious mind may not know yet what to do, just as it doesn’t know how a puzzle will look until it’s finished. I may not know how I’m going to do this, but soon something will come to me, and then a little bit more will come. I will find the process very interesting, because while I don’t know yet what the solution will be, I do know that I will do it, and that part of me already knows how to do it. It will also be interesting to see how time feels different at this level of the mind and to discover about how much I will accomplish in such a short period of clock time.

Counting up from 1 to 3, I am becoming more quietly alert, and I am now ready to work in a focused, concentrated way, rapidly going from not knowing to knowing how to start: 1. I am more alert, relaxed, and energized, ready to use the superior wisdom of my subconscious mind. 2. I am ready to come all the way up to full alertness with my eyes open, eager to work in conjunction with the creative faculties of my mind. 3.

By taking action, you will begin to create momentum by weakening the resistance you feel between you and the finish line. Moving forward, you will likely confront analysis paralysis again, but each time you do, you can approach it with strength rather than letting it seize your control.

Chime in! What are your thoughts on getting more done or analysis paralysis? Or just say hello, it’s always nice to know that others can relate :).

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Get More Done #1: How to Confront and Weaken Analysis Paralysis

August 5th, 2010 | 7 Comments »

This is the first in a two-part series about getting more done, what is stopping you from maintaining momentum – and what you can do to start getting more done, now! Stay tuned for the second part on Tuesday (you might want to grab the A Beautiful Ripple Effect RSS feed, or subscribe to be notified via email).

As I write this blog post, I am facing analysis paralysis, one fierce letter at a time. My mind feels like it is miles away, twisting and turning amid my graduate school research. Big projects, looming deadlines, and sometimes even mundane daily events can easily cause one to become detached, an observer of an experience rather than an engaged and mindful participant. Once you feel detachment, you feel less in control of your own life, starting an upsetting cycle that can lead you to over-analyze what you’re doing in an effort to become more immersed in the moment; however, as a result, you dig yourself into a deeper hole, leading to a feeling of being stuck, out of alignment due to analysis paralysis.

Power blogger Chris Garrett defines this yucky stage aptly. He writes, “Analysis Paralysis is where you can’t make any forward progress because you bog yourself down in details, tweaking, brainstorming, researching….”

So what do we do to break the cycle and confront the pesky instigator?

Modify Your Perspective

Often you can get so knee deep in the details of a scene that you can no longer see the landscape. But your mind doesn’t want to see the landscape, right? You need to focus on the details to get this done already! However, if you don’t take the time to remove yourself from the micro-level, you may be creating more work for yourself, or worse; you could cause yourself to meet some major hurdles down the road. Try adopting a different perspective to gain greater awareness of other aspects of your situation.

Find the middle ground between worst case and best case. Rather than think in extremes, think in shades of gray. Ask yourself: What is the worst case scenario? What is the best case scenario? Then, move towards the middle, a much more realistic scenario to plan for.

Alter your expectations. If you expect the journey to be steady without bumps or turns, you are setting yourself up for disappointment along the way. At the outset, prepare for roadblocks to appear as you take your plan into reality.

Engage Your Right-Brain

In order to overpower analysis, the brainchild of your left-brain, it is critical to awaken your right-brain’s creative muscles. Personally, this step is the most difficult for me to put into practice while under the power of my left-brain; however, this action is akin to magic dust, the secret potion that greatly weakens the reigns of analysis paralysis.

Trick your left-brain. Let your left-brain think it’s still in power by slowly warming up your right-brain. You can do this by introducing one “creative” element into your work at a time. If you’re working in an Excel File, try shading the columns into a fun array of colors. If you’re typing, use a fun font and/or play with the font colors. If you’re working away from the computer, you have the most wiggle room. I love using a whiteboard to brainstorm with big multicolored markers and make drawings. Or you can use colored pencils, crayons, and big pieces of paper – let your imagination run wild while still embracing your left-brain’s need to keep working.

Unleash your creativity. Take a break for a minimum of 10 minutes (use a timer if you must). Move away from your computer or simply turn off the monitor and focus fully on a single creative activity. You may want to draw on a piece of paper, write a fun letter, or snap a photo. The possibilities are endless.

Great Creative Fuel

Move Your Body

It is easy to get stuck in your head and continue the cycle of over-analyzing even the simplest of tasks. I’ve found that the quickest way to gain momentum and take meaningful action is to move my body. As simple as it sounds, it works! And it can take as little as 10 seconds.

Move away from your chair. Stand up and try jogging in place for 5 to 10 seconds. Notice how your body feels. Where are your arms? Are they tense by your side or swaying freely? Is your upper body slouched over or upright? How does your neck feel? Now, try moving again for another 5 to 10 seconds, but this time, explore your space. If you’re in a public office, try walking swiftly to another area of the office. When you let your body move to another location (rather than staying in place), you will notice changes in your body and mind. Do you feel a little more relaxed? Is the hamster wheel in your mind slowing down a bit? Take note of any changes you feel and experiment with this activity over time. Then find what works best for you as a quick way to engage your mind-body connection during your hectic work schedule and utilize this activity as often as you can throughout the day.

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On Tuesday, I’ll be exploring how you can begin reconnecting your actions to an overarching goal, and how you can focus on getting more meaningful work done each day.

In the meantime, if anything in this article has struck a chord with you, I’d love to answer questions, offer support or simply hear your experiences. Just leave a comment, drop me an email, or use the contact form.

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How to Motivate Yourself: 21 Quotes to Help You Refocus and Renew

July 22nd, 2010 | 14 Comments »

Quotes are a wonderful source of inspiration. Many people collect quotes (myself included) or display them in their physical space as personal reminders. I love reading quotes when I need an energy boost or a little help getting motivated to tackle my daunting to-do list. For this post, I decided to share the quotes I return to most often to spark my motivation.

Mindful Reading Tip! Try reading the quotes slowly. Allow your eyes to gently soften then close after you read each one, visualizing the words and what they mean to you. Just like a delicious piece of cake that you want to savor! But not all cakes are created equal, so taste this collection and notice if one outshines the rest. Then, sit with that quote for a couple of minutes and let its words work their magic! Below are 21 curated quotes just for you!

The great opportunity is where you are. Do not despise your own place and hour. Every place is under the stars, every place is the center of the world. -John Burroughs

Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vantage point. -Harold B. Melchart

Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves. -Dale Carnegie

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

A man would do nothing if he waited until he could do it so well that no one could find fault. -John Henry Newman

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity. -Albert Einstein

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? -Marianne Williamson

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. -Lao-Tzu

Things do not change; we change. -Henry David Thoreau

It isn’t that they can’t see the solution. It is that they can’t see the problem. -G.K. Chesterton

Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. -St. Francis of Assisi

Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising every time we fall. -Confucius

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. -Helen Keller

The greatest mistake a man can make is to be afraid of making one. -Elbert Hubbard

It’s not that some people have willpower and some don’t. It’s that some people are ready to change and others are not. -James Gordon

You have to get to the point where going for it is more important than winning or losing. -Arthur Ashe

Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity. -Louis Pasteur

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear. -Ambrose Redmoon

Often you just have to rely on your intuition. -Bill Gates

It’s easier to live with disappointment than regret. -Andre Agassi

The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are. -J. Pierpont Morgan

Did you have a favorite quote? Do you have another quote to add to the mix? Please share!

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Thank you to @chadrem and @SafetyInNumbers for contributing to this post on Twitter!

How to Take Action on a Daunting Project

May 19th, 2010 | 2 Comments »

As children, projects were usually fun, creative activities that allowed us to explore ourselves and the world around us. As adults, our projects become a bit more complex-and often downright frightening. Personally, I seem to commit subconsciously to daunting projects on a regular basis. I enjoy the fear and excitement that accompanies projects that are not predefined. Yet when faced with a project that seems completely overwhelming and practically impossible, it’s easy to become paralyzed by fear and resist engaging with it altogether. So how do we move past feeling powerless in order to begin taking action? Below are some of the methods I rely on to turn fear into action.

Recognize the Daunting Project

What projects are you resisting? Write down one project that you would particularly like to begin working on. Now that you have formally recognized that the project is a bit daunting, you have taken the first (and often the most difficult) step towards taking action.

Define Completion

It’s very hard to take a trip when you don’t know your destination, and the same goes for an action about which you are unsure. Define a specific, measurable, and exciting goal for the completion of that project. Of course, that daunting project may have specific milestones or goals defined by a boss or team, but redefine that goal into one that will motivate you personally. Steve Chandler, the author of 100 Ways to Motivate Yourself, explains why he believes goals are often not reached.

“Usually, a goal is just a goal. But a power goal is a goal that takes on a huge reality. It lives and breathes. It provides motivational energy. It gets you up in the morning. You can taste it, smell it, and feel it. You’ve got it clearly pictured in your mind. You’ve got it written down. And you love writing it down because every time you do it fills you with clarity of purpose.”

In essence, you want to define completion objectively so that you know exactly what you’re working towards. You need to define it subjectively as well so that you are motivated and excited to take action. This combination taps into the strengths of both your left and right brain.

Cross-Examine Your Fears

Knowledge is power; however, some knowledge can reduce our personal power if it remains out of sight. With that in mind, write down all of the fears you’ve associated with the project. Then, take all of these fears and cross-examine them. Be ruthless. Determine how you can turn these strength-sapping thoughts into powerful, positive motivators for action. Yes, it sounds a bit far-fetched, but redefining your perspective to enable you to focus on creating-rather than worrying-is essential for personal success. For example, how often do you fear failure, imperfection, or the judgment of others? These fears are draining and really don’t do much to help you feel powerful and ready to tackle a daunting project. When I fear failure, I find it helpful to flip the switch and think about what I will do to create success. In essence, I define what will make me feel successful with regard to a specific project. What can I do to be proud of my work? I acknowledge the fears I have and then remove the power I’ve attached to them. It’s important to remember that we always have the ability to choose our personal perspective.

Create a Personal Road Map

As we start our trip, we must know at least two key points on the map: our place of departure and our destination. The area in between these two points represents the land of uncertainty. In order to take action, we must first plan a successful strategy. To do that, we need to divide our completion goal into more manageable sub-goals. Not sure how to begin? Research some ideas by looking online, offline, and asking others. But don’t let “research” overwhelm you.

Create limits on how much time you’re willing to spend on that research and when the time is up, stop! Then, explore what you found by creating mind maps, outlines, charts, or any other method that allows you to be creative and put the pieces together in a way that makes sense to you. Next, use all of this knowledge to determine mini-goals that you’ll use as benchmarks for your completion goal. Typically, I create 5 to 10 mini-goals for complex projects. A mini-goal may be to write the outline for a novel (main goal: write a novel) or determine the right project management system for your business (main goal: create a virtual business). Then, focus on one mini-goal at a time and break it down into specific, daily action items.

Action items and mini-goals will help you create a personal road map for the project. The key is to ensure that you create a map that is capable of changing. As obstacles arise, you must be able to modify your map. With this map, you should be able to see the details of the project and the big picture-both perspectives are critical when working on a complex project.

Track Your Progress

Keep a daily action log so that you recognize that you are indeed taking action. Clearly, it’s sometimes difficult to understand that we’re taking action when the results are not immediate; after all, we’re very accustomed to instant gratification. A daily action log will also help you see what’s working and what still needs some tweaking. It’s helpful to be able to understand when something seems to be preventing you from moving forward. Most importantly, track your progress so that you can reward yourself for taking action. Positive reinforcement is essential to overall success both personally and professionally.

How do you take action on daunting projects?

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Are you doing too much?

July 16th, 2009 | 13 Comments »

Overworked & Asleep

How often do you think to yourself, “I really need more to do?”

It is natural for most passionate people to fill their buckets with a bit too much at some point in their lives. Well, since it’s natural, does that mean we should just push forward and ignore our current state? Our rational selves would likely answer, “No!” So intellectually, we know we should be doing less. Still, that knowledge doesn’t translate easily into change.

Personally, I justify doing “too much” because I feel I have no other options. Soon enough, I become stuck in a cycle, thinking that I simply have to deal with the pressure and get through that particular episode. Of course, thoughts like those leave me feeling pretty defeated. Add to those the opposing thoughts of “I really am doing too much,” and you’ve created a pretty strong opposing team. Why? Because none of these thoughts give you any insight into how you can turn that knowledge into change; that is, without moving to a deserted island with no Internet service. Unfortunately, that’s not really an option for me right now.

Negativity feeds negativity, which leaves one with precious little internal strength. Because of that conundrum, we’re often left feeling helpless and continue doing “too much” just because we don’t know what else to do.

An Alternative Perspective

A quote by Robert Holden offers us a different way to consider our options:

As we become even more strongly addicted to the pursuit of happiness, we are in no way prepared for happiness when it arrives.

Will you let the pursuit of what you’re doing (which is almost always too much) conceal your ability to enjoy life and the fruits of your work? Well, if you value internal happiness, you won’t let this happen. So how do you create the space you need and room enough to breathe without dropping everything?

The Hardest Part

Many times, I’ve resisted thinking about this question by responding quickly, “I don’t have a clue!” In reality, however, we know exactly what we must do. It’s just a struggle to actually do it.

Answer these questions as honestly as you can.

-> Why are you doing too much? In other words, what are the goals of this work?
-> What can you sacrifice to create the breathing room you need?

Then comes the hard part; actually making the required sacrifice.

Is it worth it? Well, that’s for you to decide. For me, the answer is a resounding, “Yes!”

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Huffington Post – 10 Ways to Nourish Your Inner Zen: Part Two
Psychology Today – How to Take on a Daunting Project

10 Techniques to Successfully Overcome Procrastination

January 28th, 2009 | 5 Comments »

Woman Working at Computer

My name is Carolyn and I am an information addict. My nemesis: blogs full of productivity systems that claim to make you do more today than ever before. Of course, I fall right into the trap and read these articles for hours at a time (and feel quite studious because I’m “learning”), but then I look at the clock and realize that there is no way that today will be my most productive. It’s a vicious cycle for an information addict.

I recently realized that what has helped me to be most productive has never really changed. In particular, there are 10 key methods that work for me and have been working all along. I just like the fancy productivity system names and thought something better may exist in the internet abyss.

1. Link Filtering
Don’t click on the links! Once you start clicking and digging deeper into a topic, you lose focus and energy. If you feel a link is incredibly valuable, bookmark it. I have found that I never go back to most of the links that I bookmark, which means lots of time saved!

2. E-Mail Naps
Take care of your e-mail program — turn off its constant buzzing and even the number that appears on your desktop of unread messages. Let your email rest :). When I am working, I quit my e-mail program and write e-mails that I would like to send in plain text documents saved with the subject of the e-mail. Then, I send the e-mails all at once when I complete a chunk of my work.

3. Focus
Focus on one task at a time. If the task you are working on is part of a larger project, define a specific goal for that period of time (e.g., read 10 pages or brainstorm ideas for book title). I write the goal on a post-it note and leave it next to me while I’m working.

4. Clear your Desktop
Clearing your desktop allows you to focus on one project without distraction from piles of papers or other nicknacks.

5. Take Mini-Breaks
When you begin to lose focus, take a 5-15 minute break away from your work area. Do something totally unrelated to work (e.g., take a quick walk, create a cute label, eat some fruit, listen to music, stretch)

6. Do what you DON’T want to do FIRST.
It’s yucky — I know. But afterwards the feeling of success is enough to energize you through the rest of your day.

7. Be Enthusiastic
When you were in school, did you learn the most from teachers who were enthusiastic about the subject matter or the teachers who fell asleep while talking about the same math concept for the 4th time that day? Even if you are counting pennies, bring positive energy to the task. Use positive self-talk and convince yourself that what you are doing is fun. If you’re writing, use a favorite pen. I use a bright colored sharpie when I’m writing and it does the trick! The key is to cognitively trick yourself into thinking what you’re doing is just wonderful. (Now you can see why I want to go into psychology!)

8. Reward Yourself
Sounds wonderful, but most of us probably don’t do it on a consistent basis. It’s a great incentive to push forward with a project. Create a reward system and you’ll be a bit more motivated to put one foot in front of the other.

9. Relabel “Procrastination”
We all find ourselves procrastinating and it makes most people pretty upset with themselves. It’s important to switch your mindset to something more positive. For example, you’ve been surfing the internet and browsing different online bookstores. You went online to find one book and then an hour later you haven’t found the book and feel as if you’ve been roaming aimlessly. You can get upset with yourself OR you can label that time as a break that you needed so that you can reenergize and move forward. You have the power to take control of the negative emotions you feel brewing and re-assess the situation from a positive mindset.

10. Let go of Perfection
Embracing imperfection is a struggle. We often delay acting on something because we want to do it perfectly. Rationally, we know nothing is perfect; however, it’s difficult to find the balance between doing something perfectly and not doing something at all. We need to leave our comfort zone and be okay doing something “good enough.” That in of itself is probably the largest hurdle to overcome.

What techniques work for you? Do you have difficulty doing something that you know is not going to be “perfect?” Or…. do you never procrastinate and do everything perfectly– oh goodness I hope no one like that exists!