Posts Tagged ‘Relaxation’

Experience Inner Harmony Within Your Life

June 25th, 2010 | 3 Comments »

Just writing the words, “rest and relaxation,” on a piece of paper creates an immediate sense of relief within my body. I feel my shoulders drop as my back releases its tension. It’s as if I gently just whispered to myself, “It’s okay to be still; your mind and body crave time to be, rather than to do… really, it’s okay. Just let go.” And my body does let go… the tension dissolves as I write the words “rest and relaxation”.

Go ahead, try it. Write these words down. You may have a sudden urge to write them over and over again, I did, and now I am looking at a piece of paper that reads “rest and relaxation” about 50 times in a multitude of colors and handwriting styles. This piece of paper filled over the course of only a few days. Now, I look at it and like a dancer, a muscle memory is created. The mere act of intentionally glancing at the words triggers a cascading stillness response in my being.

My brain interrupts my focus with the sudden thought: It’s too simple, too easy. We dish out so much money and energy to create a sense of relief in our lives; however, could the solution we seek be missed because it can’t be simply “found”? It has to be “created” with precise intention and just one moment at a time.

Invite this calm energy into your life. Allow honesty and new truths to unfold from within this new space. Through this stillness, you create a clearing for your mind and body to align and establish a sense of inner harmony.

An Invitation to Rest

You are formally invited to rest for a full five minutes.

For guidance, I recommend watching a great video on Intentional Resting – How to Rest NOW. It is a free five- minute video available on www.intentionalresting.com.

For those experienced with resting (isn’t that a funny thing to hear someone say!?), do accept the invitation to rest by embracing these five minutes wholeheartedly.

Now, it’s time to rest!

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I recently purchased a fabulous e-book on establishing more balance/a sense of calm within our lives. It is filled with tips that you can utilize immediately as well as exercises/worksheets. The e-book is written by blogger Ali Hale and is called Regain Your Balance.

Monday Inspiration: Finding Calm in Chaos

February 23rd, 2009 | 4 Comments »

birdcage by tamar

image from tamar on etsy

Writing blog posts has become a treat for me. I love the freedom that comes with having a blog or a journal of any kind. It provides quiet moments of reflection that re-calibrate my sense of self during periods of chaos that can easily overwhelm my rational perspective.

I could write all about chaos and focus on things that are draining my energy, but what would be the point? We all know what that feels like. So I’m going to recognize that this week may present more challenges than usual, and it’s okay to feel a bit drained or less creative than other weeks.

Now the important step: balance. How can I implement “balance” into chaos? I’m definitely not an authority on this subject, but from personal experience the key has been to recognize the other side of the current situation. It’s important to look at the situation and explore how we can utilize our personal strengths to navigate through the chaos.

Finding a sense of calm is an incredible strength that shouldn’t be neglected when most needed.

• • • Inspiration to help guide you through the week • • •

1) Relaxation

“Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day is the rest we take between two deep breaths.”  — Etty Hillesum

2) Reading

“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.”  — Charles W. Eliot

Reading is a wonderful way to take your mind off current events. A wonderful novel and a cup of warm tea may be all you need to re-energize.

3) Visual Stimuli

“Art is unquestionably one of the purest and highest elements in human happiness. It trains the mind through the eye, and the eye through the mind. As the sun colors flowers, so does art color life.” — John Lubbock

After spending two winters in Boston, I fully realize the importance of color on mood. Bright colors provide a huge energy boost. I love looking for pops of color in nature and in art. And the internet can also be a great resource!

To get your color fix, check out the Crayola Art of Childhood Gallery!

Crayola was just a primer to prepare you for my go-to site for bright, fun colors: Making it Lovely
You must check out the photos of Nicole Balch’s (blogger behind Making it Lovely) gorgeous (and colorful) studio!

4) Space

“Everyone needs a sanctuary to gather thoughts and apply personal tools. It’s in a sanctuary where a sense of self is daily repaired and polished. Things begin to make sense in a sanctuary. Even for the most limited among us, a sanctuary is where progress is made and work gets done.” — Robert Genn

5) Create

“Believe in your creative potential, enjoy the creative process, try something new, explore new possibilities, but most of all believe.” — Donna Downey

Visit Donna Downey’s site for loads of creative ideas!

The act of creating something is extremely therapeutic. I often create collages while working on “serious” stuff.  It provides time off for the left side of my brain and exercises the right side :). So simple yet so powerful. You can see my crazy little set up below — pink paper on the desk (beginning of a collage).

Carolyn's Space

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I hope you are able to utilize some of these ideas to create a sense of calm that you can carry with you throughout the week.

… Thank you to those participating in the Interview Game (Post: When I Grow Up)! I will be posting more questions later tonight so be sure to leave a comment that says “interview me!” …

Happy Monday!
Carolyn